Dating someone who has cheated before
Fortunately, I’ve counselled several couples in this position, I can explain the pluses and negatives of each option and if you know what’s likely to go wrong, you won’t feel such a failure when it inevitably happens and forewarned is always forearmed.
At first sight if you’re in the ‘my husband cheated and had a child’ dilemma, this looks perfect.
I don’t know what to do to try and cope with the situation and move forward – help!
In other words, if you’re still in the “dating just to date” phase of your life, involving a woman with a child is probably not the type of relationship you should engage in because your actions will more than likely impact the lives of two people — the woman and the child.
She, too, was in a relationship and neither of us wanted to cheat on our gf/bf because we cared so much about them and everything that we had built up with them. We agreed that it wouldn’t happen again unless we both felt that it was time to end what we had.
The need not to cheat didn’t last long – 30 days or so later, we found ourselves alone – the first wrong move – and then one of us leaned in for a kiss and it happened. We kept our promise, but both ended our relationships and 2 weeks later got together and a year later we’re still together.
However, there are a few things childless men should keep in mind when deciding whether they are ready to date a woman with a child, or children. Figure out if you like or want kids BEFORE dating a woman with children.
When you are single and looking to mingle, you generally will not hurt anyone if you start dating “just to see where things go.” Plenty of men do this all the time.
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There are going to be times when you’re going to be very close to losing your mind because your partner will question your motives.