Dating your friend
Don’t get me wrong, they are wonderful (there’s a reason we keep each other around, after all, right? They possess many, if not all, of what I’m looking for in a match.
Crap.) Part of their motivation revolved around the fact that Timothy and Jessica had both recently found themselves single and, coincidentally, with the opposite relationship problems; her falling too hard and too fast, him, hopping from relationship to relationship, dodging commitment. Meaning that when women and men meet, they inevitably put each other in ‘folders’ or categories. The difference, I’ve seen (and experienced, actually), is that women can change their minds pretty easily.
But how do you go about it and pop the question without making things uncomfortable?
Use these step-by-step tips on how to date a friend, and you’ll be able to create the attraction in love sooner than you think.
You've had relationships that didn't last because of how close you and your best friend are.
Things just kept getting in the way, but you never dismissed the idea of being with them.5.
You've already made a reservation for you and your best friend. Then they were into you, but maybe you found someone else, or moved away for college.
If you feel like they're checking off a lot of the things on this list already and you don't feel the need to find someone else, then you should either commit to them or cool things down a bit so you can find a fulfilling relationship. You've never tried to set them up with your friends.
But it's nice to know that if you did start dating your best friend, they'll just slide right into family gatherings and skip right past the awkward "meet my family" stage. You've thought about dating them before, then they thought of dating you, but things never lined up right.
They say the best relationships start off as friendships, but what they don’t mention is how tricky it can be to go from friend zone to couple status.
(Just watch “Pretty Woman” if you need a refresh on what a minefield that transition can be.) If you’re interested in dating your friend, chances are you probably value that relationship enough to be concerned about losing it if things don’t work out romantically.
That’s why it’s smart to be a little strategic about your next move.